The number one Google search phrase that brings people to my blog is, "boredom in retirement." The people that find my blog from that search phrase, browse my blog for less than five seconds before leaving. There's a very good reason for that, during the first 12 months of my retirement, I've written only one post on boredom in retirement.
Yet I do have a few thoughts on the topic.
First of all, it occurs to me that a lot of people must have jobs they find more interesting than I found mine. Perhaps it's because I held the same one for nearly 18 years, but I was bored every single day for the last several years of it. That's not to say I wasn't busy. It's just that what I was busy doing was really not that interesting to me.
When I perused my "to do" list each day, every task was equally unappealing. I just thought it was that way for everyone. My boss used to say, "it's not supposed to be fun, that's why they call it work." Well, he did have a point, they weren't paying me to have fun, they were paying me to get a job done.
Last week a Google searcher found my blog with the search phrase, "How long does it take to get bored in retirement?" The answer? About five minutes.
Yes, you do get bored in retirement. I'm guessing everyone gets bored from time to time, job or no job. But the thing about retirement is, most everything on your "to do" list is something you actually like doing. So to get un-bored, you simply pick something from your list of mostly appealing choices.
If you're bored in retirement, it's really your own fault. No one is paying you to be bored like they were when you had a job. While I can see someone getting bored in retirement, I just can't see how they can stay bored for longer than a minute or two. You get to pick anything you want to do. What is less boring than that?
Overwhelming? Maybe. Boring? No.
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Syd:
In my case, work was so interesting that I partly left before I became a "lifer." Even in that job, some boredom was inevitable.
But that applies to all parts of life. Brushing our teeth daily is quite possibly boring, but it's got to be done.
As you rightly point out, any boredom in retirement beyond the minimum required is not excusable.
Whatever may be the fears of those who are considering retirement, boredom should not be one of those fears.
Ram
Posted by: Ram | March 16, 2009 at 10:49 PM
I have been retired going on 5 years now. I left at age 55. I am honestly less bored now than when I was working in a job that others would have admired. Great pay and benefits. Some jaws literally dropped when I told them I was walking away from that job.
The key is to follow one's passion. For me, at this time, its forecasting the stock market, doing some art, and spending as much time enjoying nature as I can when the weather cooperates.
I guess one needs to know themselves. I have been lucky I guess.
CM
Posted by: Canadian Money | March 17, 2009 at 01:50 PM
@Ram: You bring up an interesting point. It seems MANY people are concerned with boredom before they actually retire, but I have yet to meet someone that is retired that says boredom is a real issue. (Maybe some bored retirees will chime in here.)
@CM: That is the key, I think, knowing yourself. I've always considered myself to be someone that knows myself pretty well, and yet, the first year of retirement surprised me a bit in what I learned about myself. Sometimes, you get so wound up in the work persona that it's a little hard to separate that out until you stop working and let go of that.
Posted by: Retired Syd | March 17, 2009 at 04:42 PM
My husband and I have been retired since June 1. I taught for 27 years, and my husband for 34 years. We have a 13 year old (can you say SURPRISE?) with Williams Syndrome. I am only 55 years old. We have kept pretty busy, but there still is time for boredom. Especially when there was bad weather and you were stuck inside. However, we got a Kindle (LOVE IT), read, do sudoku and crosswords, blog, get on the computer, play cards, etc.
I love being retired!!!!!!!
Posted by: Alice Patterson | March 18, 2009 at 07:25 AM
This is because the majority of people have lazy minds. They can't think for themselves and require others to provide a purpose in their lives. Of course, how anyone could describe themselves as fulfilling their purpose by working 70-80% of the jobs that exist is beyond me.
If you take it to the extreme it's one of the reasons atrocities are allowed to happen.
Posted by: Chad @ Sentient Money | March 18, 2009 at 10:25 AM
I am not old enough to retire but I was unemployed for a year. It was absolutely fantastic. I wrote, I did volunteer work, I did political activism, I had a life. Then near the end of the year, I can't believe it, but I got restless. Maybe even bored. I never thought that would happen, but it did. My conclusion was that I didn't have enough people around. Everyone else was working.
Posted by: Rhea | May 16, 2009 at 12:20 PM
Rhea, I think there's something to that. I think if my husband weren't retired with me, I would struggle with boredom more. The truth is, I don't really need much in the way of social interaction to prevent boredom, I enjoy many do-alone activities. But I feel like having a companion along for a hike or like playing tennis or going out to lunch, it's great to have at least one non-working friend at my disposal to fill that role.
The other thing I am finding, which your comment reveals and I may have to write more about soon, is that I'm seeing that each year of retirement is going to have to be different than the last one to keep what I'll call "forward-movement." I think that restlessness is a symptom that you need something new, a new hobby, passion, or general direction. The restlessness is from getting kind of stuck--we all need to feel like we're growing, changing, evolving, even if we're no longer doing that within a work environment.
Thanks so much for your thought-provoking comment!
Posted by: Retired Syd | May 16, 2009 at 12:29 PM