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July 11, 2012

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Rick

I'm sure everyone who reads your piece will be honored by your sharing and sorry for the suffering and loss involved. Take care.

Tom Sightings

Sorry to hear this story abt. your mom. We've had cancer in my family, too -- not ocular melanoma, but other kinds that are just as deadly. No fun at all. I support Relay for Life, with the hope . . . with the hope.

New at this

A very soul-bearing post...

I've often wondered why more people, who have the means, don't retire early....Is it because they really want all the extra material possessions and country club memberships? Or is it because they really don't "get it". Life is short, and just because we don't admit it, doesn't change the answer.

My mother also died of cancer at a young age after a gruelling 7 year decline. And about the only positive I can see that comes out of watching this sort of thing unload on the ones you love, is the wake up call it gives to those standing helplessly by and watching...

Sorry for your loss.

Retired Syd

Thanks Rick.

Tom, it's sad, isn't it, that most of us have been "touched" by cancer in one way or another.

New at that this: I'm sorry to hear about your mom. And 7 years is a horribly long time to have to suffer. But you are right, it definitely shapes your viewpoint going forward, and I do think it impacted my decision to try and retire young.

Here's to all of us staying healthy and enjoying life to the fullest!

My Life In Focus

My mom died at the age of 58. A full 11 months after she took her FIRST vacation. Wow! Talk about a life changing event.
I decided to live my life to the fullest ever since. I was 28.

Never looked back and really don't care about anything because in the long run, does any of this really matter?

New at this

So Syd, I think a lot of us sort of think of think of you as our early retirment "scout"....In my own case, with just 5 months to go! (sorry, just like to write that out loud)...I'd love to hear how you still feel about the whole idea 4 or so years into it....Would also like to hear from others if they are lurking around.....

Its interesting that most of the discussion around the web on this topic seems to come from those who still haven't done it yet (guess it makes sense because they are so excited)....but would actually be a lot more insightful to hear more from the verterens.....

Any thoughts on how to get a conversation like that going...?

Retired Syd

@My Life: Sorry about your mom. It does teach you to enjoy life to the fullest and not to sweat the small stuff, doesn't it?

@New: In two more weeks I'll be re-retired, so I'll try to get that conversation going for us all. And congratulations on the only-five-months-to-go part!

Grace

I would be right there in line to get tested if I had the chance (and heaven help the doctor who tried to take that chance away from me). We deserve the right to make our own decisions our own way. I don't think this post is really about early retirement--I don't know that I would retire if I knew I had only a short time to live--but about how one wants to live during whatever time we have. OTOH, in the small town where I grew up, there is a strain of Huntington's Chorea--I do have a couple of friends who chose not to get tested. One developed HC, one did not. Both had families before they knew if they had the HC gene. I understand their choices even if I think I would have made a different one.

Retired Syd

@Grace: I agree, I think it's pompous for a doctor to think he knows what I would want to do without asking me!

I have too many friends and family members that have been recently diagnosed with cancers of various types. This issue of how/whether/when to treat it has been weighing heavily on me for the last several months as a consequence. I guess you really don't know how you would react until you are really faced with it, but I have a pretty good idea, given my experience with the subject.

Anyway, you are right, this isn't really a retirement post, it is really a what-I've-been-thinking-about post. Having said that, I do think this experience of losing a mother at such a young age informs many of my life decisions, including my decision to get out of the rat race early.

deegee

My mom passed away from Multiple Myeloma (a rather nasty form of Leukemia) in 1995 at age 59 (I was 32). I wish she had been able to see me retire at age 45. She had gotten me started in investing back (not counting my 401(k)) in 1990 with some muni bond funds so I could earn interest without paying taxes on it. That is how she was, planting a seed and watching it grow, whether it is an idea or something in her garden.

Intrakid

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