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July 23, 2009


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S. B.

I also read that same article a few weeks ago but I had trouble relating to it at all. "Getting away from it all" is certainly a common phrase and no doubt there are people who go on these landmark tours, since we see lots of ads for them. My personal observations over the years, however, have been much different. Out of the hundreds of people who've told me where/why they are traveling, I'd say pretty close to zero traveled to learn how people in other cultures think or to see landmarks or to get away from it all. Hence, I couldn't really relate to the article.

It seems like common reasons for travel are considerably less high-brow than you might expect. The most common reasons I've heard were actually pretty simple: Went to visit relatives or old friends. Went somewhere that is more suitable for my favorite hobby (e.g. fishing, sailing, hiking, horseback riding, etc). Went to visit my home country. Went somewhere that is currently less hot/cold. Went to a major sporting event or concert event. Went to visit my childhood neighborhood, my old college town, or the like. Went to the same place I enjoyed once before but took along new people to share it (e.g. children, new spouse, new friend, etc).

Although people suggest that in the abstract all of these sorts of items have technology and no-travel substitutes, I seriously doubt people would find them fulfilling themselves for their particular situation. If you like visiting your parents, and like to go fishing, and like the cool weather in Canada, then I don't think calling your parents on the phone and looking at fishing videos and turning down the air conditioning 5 degrees is going to cut it.

As for why some people REALLY like travel, I don't think that's associated with extraversion like many comments expressed. Isn't the "travel bug" most close associated with what psychologists call "openness"? (See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Openness_to_experience ) I certainly think so. The day before I travel somewhere on a reasonably long trip I am absolutely giddy. I can almost not contain myself thinking about the fact that I am going to be roaming around and experiencing new things. I'm not a highly extraverted person, but I'm way off the chart on the openness factor, and that is pretty consistent with the theory.

Retired Syd

@S.B. I love getting this type of comment that really gives me something more to think about. I think that's a great observation--while people that know me tend to think of me as an extrovert (because I talk a lot), I need a LOT of alone time to be happy--so think I'm really more of an introvert. And when it comes to travel, I don't generally engage people on more than a superficial level in my travels--so I agree, that probably doesn't account for the like or dislike of travel.

But the openness thing. It's made me think that not just enjoying travel but enjoying retirement may have more to do with openness. For the obvious reasons for travel, but also in retirement, you have to be open to new ways at looking at your life. After all those years of being "accountant", or "finance professional," you have to be open to listening to who you are and what you want to be doing without that role defining you anymore.

Thanks for your thoughtful comment.


I'm in the minority on this, but I dislike travel (business or "pleasure"). In fact, it thrills me that since I retired, I can no longer be sent on trips against my will.

That openness theory is interesting. I'd have to say I'm pretty low on the openness scale - routine and down-to-earth is a much better definition for me. And I'm an introvert as well (not shy at all, but really a homebody).

I do enjoy seeing new places and especially seeing different flora and fauna, so I will satisfy those needs with day trips or short weekend trips. But anything longer than that I just find myself thinking about wanting to get home.

However, I am loving early retirement, and I think not needing a travel budget helped me get here sooner.

Retired Syd

@RetiredAt47: Well you are definitely right about that travel budget part!


When I travel I discover as much about myself as I do about the places that I visit. You're right; that change of environment lets us find other ways of being, dig out parts of ourselves that might generally be dormant, and see new perspectives. I think that if I could I'd just travel all of the time. Is it tiring? For sure. Can it be frustrating? Indeed. But for me there's nothing that brings as much joy - in the anticipation, the experience, and the memories - as travel does. Keep on truckin' girl!


So how do I (a woman like you, syd) work out this whole travel thing when they're in a relationship with a person like RetiredAt47?

I'm still wondering how to make THAT better.

*wimper, wimper*


p.s you're coming to NY? Everyone always wants to come by me! :)

Retired Syd

@ Nicole: Wow, good question! But then again my favorite place to visit is NYC--so maybe I wouldn't be in such a hurry to leave if I were him either . . .


Yeah I know, we're spoiled. Poor, but spoiled.

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Ann Hearn

Great blog! I am looking forward to the day that I will be able to travel. Thank you for another fun and interesting read.

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