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April 08, 2011


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fred doe

the room looks great and not having to cook is better. i don't see the problem with the clothes? hawaii : you need swim trunks, shorts. tee shirts and flip flops? you gotta work on that retirement couture syd :).

Banjo Steve

Sounds like the flip side of you previous blog (What are you willing to give up?). And I think you answered yourself there. You really like those vacations, it seems, and are willing to pay the price (price = part time job).

If it works for you, why not? And when working REALLY grows old, then bag it. All the best to you.


I'm afraid you are becoming a victim of 'lifestyle inflation'. It sneaks up on you and by the time you realize it, it's too late. As you make more money, you start to spend it. It happens to everybody. Please don't feel singled out.
Does a part time job really cause as much stress as a full time job? Are you stressed out due to the tax season?
The secret is to make the extra money and save it. Not spend it. But we all make excuses and justify the spending till we find ourselves right back in the hole we got out of. If I had kept my spending the same these past 10 years as when I first retired at 50, I wouldn't be going back to work at 60. First you take vacations. Then you buy a vacation home. Then a little sailboat. Then a marina, boat repairs, maintenance costs, yada, yada, yada. Then you become so used to your new jet setting ways (Oh, did I mention the European vacations?) it's tough to go back to the way you were.
Now, I got my spending back down to the previous decade level and it wasn't a pleasant journey. I went kicking and screaming.

Please be careful. It just sneaks up on you and then, you're stuck.


I wonder if you've hit your "6 month honeymoon limit"? By that I mean that I've always become bored about 6 months into a new job because I've learned it all, improved what I want to improve and the challenge - and the fun - is gone. I haven't quite hit that at this job because I'm winding down a company so it's staying interesting, but... I can feel it coming. And I'll pull the plug when the fun is gone. And maybe it's worse for you because there isn't an official end in sight? ie - YOU will have to pull that plug? And then you have to transition someone else... etc etc.

Can you pimp the hubby out for a bit? Or he doesn't want to?

Retired Syd

@Fred: It's the tennis and hiking clothes. I can't bear putting them on again after sweating in them so need one set for each match/hike. Otherwise, you're right a bathing suit and a sun dress is pretty much it.

@Jacq: I think you got what I was saying.


Syd, oddly enough, I just figured out this last year that it wasn't that I didn't like work, I just like work that's a new challenge. And then a rest doing other stuff. And then a new challenge again. I don't know why it took almost 30 years of working to figure that out. Gives you the most bizarre and long resume. That I fortunately don't have to update because jobs just come. :-)

Morrison, I'm afraid I am a total failure at this lifestyle inflation stuff. :-( I am trying to loosen up and do it in little spurts with what reasonably fits into the 1, 5, 20 year plan. I just think that most people like Syd and I (ie accounting types) don't have that capacity to ignore reality - or spreadsheets and don't go off on spending benders. Maybe I'm wrong about Syd, but that's the case for me. I don't know, all that spending inflation sounds kind of tiring.

Banjo, I *think* Syd was saying that she doesn't really like the "regular consumer" style of vacation as much as she does her freebie house swapping gigs. Just like I don't like the thought of going on an all-inclusive and would rather take off for the same price in an RV for a month out in the middle of nowhere. Rushing around trying to fit everything in on a 1-2 week vacation just sucks. It's good to know what's not worth paying the price for you even when it used to seem worth it.

Sorry for the comment hijack Syd. I'll go write on my own blog that I'm avoiding now. LOL


Great post!


On the surface, house swapping appears to be a cost-effective option. Have you ever had a disappointing experience? (i.e. the house you visited was dirty, or less than you were told it would be).

Retired Syd

@Adam, I'm sure that happens but it hasn't happened to us. I only swap with folks that post a bunch of pictures. So far, every home we've gone to has looked exactly like the pictures. A couple of the homes are not as clean as I might keep mine, but I wouldn't call them dirty.

I can't say the same is true of hotels I've paid to stay at. I have had several disappointments on that front. Perhaps my expectations are higher, though, when I'm paying hundreds of dollars a night for lodging.

Retired Syd

P.S. I've always figured, if the place was really bad, we would just move into a hotel, which is what we would have done anyway if we didn't swap. Haven't had to do that yet.


Hi There. I really like your site. We just bought a time share that we can let anyone use, year round. It's global too! http://vacations-for-less.com

The reason I posted here is that many retirees stay at our Dominican resort for a period of months.


I received a call from my replacement earlier this week about a work issue, as I was walking along the beach in Carmel, CA, gazing at the ocean and luxuriating in my new retirement status. My stomach literally clenched when the calling number displayed on my cell, not because of who was calling me, but rather because of why.

I'm still surprised at what a strong physical reaction I had to the interjection of my old job into my new life. Conversely, I'm very much looking forward to returning home and beginning to work with my first adult reading student, a volunteer position I became trained for just prior to retiring. So, it would appear that it's not work in general I'm rebelling against, but rather what type.

Werner Ladders

I really enjoyed your post. Room looks great

Ralph@Retirement Lifestyle

These days, I don't feel nearly the attraction from the luxury resort. we've never had the money to indulge but it always seemed like what we would do - if we had the money. These days, I'm less tempted. Out initial plan is to spend a month someplace really rich in things to do- maybe Rome. Rent an apartment and just see what happens. If that goes well, the next trip would be three months.


I feel your confusion. I might have some casual work lined up. Probably be good money. I would love to have the money, but every time I think about working to get it I'm not sure I want many quite that badly. It is a conundrum.

Then again, its nice to have the luxury of problems like these.

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I would kill for that bad right now! I want to sleep so badly... :(

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